Welcome, and I am sorry to hear about your little guy having so many problems. My son Grayson had his first “apnea” episode when he was less than 1 month old and has been on a monitor since then.It was so scary for me at first but turned out to be my safety net. Grayson is 7.5 months old and still on it but hoping to come off very soon. Good luck to you and your little man.. get the monitor you will feel much better.