Hi! I’m so sorry you’re dealing w/ this… I only have a sec but wanted to chime in real quick…
I can relate to much of this post but wanted to let you know (in case you wanted to respond back) that my 2nd son has/had growth issues.
Also, we just had a pH probe w/ my 3rd son 2 wks ago. The ‘normal’ pH is in the 7s. Low is anything under 4.5. Usually my ds’s # was in the 4s & 5s. When he would nurse it would immediately jump to 7/7.5. Then, after nursing (5-10min later) it would dip to 2s & 3s.
Hope that helps! Hang in there!