so what happens if the other kids happen to show interest in what your child is wearing—will they try to control that, too? ok, that wasn’t very nice. what about a special little bracelet that the two of you make together with hearts on it to let her know you are thinking about her all day, or maybe a few undershirts that the two of you decorate together that she could wear under her clothes and you could tell her that it kept you right close to her heart. maybe those are corny ideas, but i was trying to think of something she could still bring with her that was special that wouldn’t break the rules.