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I am sorry too if i have come across at all too opinionated .. i agree i just want to help others and lend advice from what i have experienced. i am also here to get a little advice sometimes as well
. But i seriously think it would be a shame to see this site go down ..because it has been a lifesaver for me.. and has been the only place to turn to where there are other mothers who understand! i hope this all gets resolved and there are no more moms leaving offended .. i LOVE EVERYONE here!!
I feel so bad. I have no idea what the new policy is. Where can I read about it? I have been off the boards because things have been busy around here. I also hope that I have not offended anyone. I am very opioniated, but NEVER want to make anyone feel bad or defensive.
I just found the new policy. I can’t imagine not having this site. I have been to other reflux forums, but it is just not the same. This is the one true site that I feel like people really get help. You have all become my friends and I would really miss you. Besides where will I turn when I have my next reflux baby?
To add to what you’ve all said:
there are now 2 people gone…one left because she felt badly about posts to her…the other is gone because of posts she has left to others. the 2 are actually not related!! meaning, the one asked to leave did not leave the offending posts to the one who wanted to leave- the one who wanted to leave felt badly due to a whole situation that I won’t go into.
ANYWAY: I agree with Tracy that our posts should NOT turn to ‘hugs! good job’ only! we need to continue to give advice. as Ann Marie & beth (& I) posted, it is hard to read tone in a post. SO: please give the advice!! tell how it worked for YOU. I try and do that; for example with thickening: I personally don’t think it’s a great idea unless baby needs the calories or there’s been a swallow study and the study shows baby is aspirating and needs thickening. HOWEVER, I always put that I have never thickened, and so I don’t speak from personal experience AND there are a lot of mothers here who have posted how thickening has worked wonders for their babies
! so I encourage others to chime in, I encourage the poster to do a search, etc…there are more things like this: Reglan. It is scary stuff. HOWEVER there have been babies for whom it really helped! one mom suggests trying a small dose first to see what happens & perhaps the small dose will help the baby, like it helped hers…ok there are more topics that I’m opinionated about
, but I try and give information about it in a nice way…another example: Lori tells her experience with compounds. It doesn’t come across as harsh to me. It’s a fact of what she went through, and the research she’s done. some have found compounds to work wonderfully for their baby! they are lucky. personally I try & encourage posters to try to get it compounded correctly and to try & get caracream and to try & get zegerid and then solutabs…that’s me. but it’s ALL GOOD
. I don’t feel offended if my post encouraging compounds is followed by lori’s post, infact, I expect it.I can go on & on, as we all can
so GROUP HUG
& peace to us all
~laura
hellbennt2007-6-20 8:47:10
I don’t feel offended if my post encouraging compounds is followed by lori’s post, infact, I expect it
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…LOL, Laura!
s&h’s mum2007-6-20 8:53:55
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