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March 29, 2007 at 11:48 am #28875
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InactiveThe girls are 2 years apart. We always said we wanted them that way, but with Alexis’ horrible reflux we had doubts about having another child. When she turned 14 months the reflux was better but we were still dealing with the aftermath of it, eating aversions. But we thought, it only can get better and what the are chances of a 2nd child having reflux!!! How wrong were we! Anyways, we were at a point were it was now or never, so we decided now! It has been nice for the most part having the 2 girls play along side but there are many rough patches. I keep on thinking about the future of when they are 5 and 3, that things will be much easier with both of them talking and able to do most things on their own. We wanted them closer so we can eventually get rid of all traces of baby, high chairs, cribs, bouncy chairs, baby toys, and diapers!!!!
March 29, 2007 at 12:40 pm #28880Anonymous
InactiveSue,
Hang in there. My girls are 20 months apart. After Sarah’s seizures I was sure Hailey would be my easy baby. When she came with her own set of challenges, we were unprepared and many times unable to cope. I kept saying it would get easier when Hailey was 6 months (sitting), 10 months (crawling), 12 months (on the go). I can honestly say that even though we are still in the thick of it, it has gotten much easier at around 15-18 months, mainly because the communication piece started to happen. Now that she can express herself, it’s much easier to know what’s going on. And the best part is watching them grow and love each other… it’s amazing!
March 29, 2007 at 1:41 pm #28890Anonymous
InactiveFor those of you planning on having another baby, this info might be helpful…
http://home.clara.net/radcliffe/theallergyepidemic.htm
“There has now been quite a bit of research to establish why people with allergy genes actually develop an allergy. What we are exposed to in the first three to six months of life appears particularly important, in other words, there is a ‘vulnerable period’ in early childhood. This has given rise to the idea of allergy prevention by avoiding early contact with things which cause allergy. To give a simple example, children born in the spring or early summer, who are therefore exposed to pollens during their first three months, are more likely to develop hay fever when they are older.”
March 29, 2007 at 4:45 pm #28926Anonymous
InactiveMy children were all born in the fall or winter. Maybe that’s a good thing.
Dh (born in June) and I (born in March) both have miserable seasonal allergies.
I’m hoping my children escape this misery.March 29, 2007 at 4:53 pm #28928Anonymous
InactiveMy kids… if all goes well, will be 27months apart!!! Some of you already know… it is going to be tough between being pregnant, going to Baltimore for a couple of months for feeding program and a ton of therapies… but we will make it i hope LOL
March 29, 2007 at 5:15 pm #28932Anonymous
InactiveCongrats again, Thais. Don’t let yourself get too stressed! Take care of yourself.
March 29, 2007 at 5:27 pm #28937Anonymous
InactiveSo excited for you Thais!!! (Is it too private if I ask if it was planned or an amazing surprise?)…
Yes, it will be challenging, but hopefully the morning sickness stuff will be over before you start Matthew’s feeding therapy. Also, maybe they’ll do the therapy without you there and give you some time to rest on your own.
I’m getting the baby itch again myself… everytime I hear of someone who’s expecting I get a little twinge of wishing I was too. But dh doesn’t want anymore I don’t think (but he doesn’t want a vasectomy either, so I guess the option is always open.)
How are you feeling? Hope you have an easy time.
March 29, 2007 at 5:38 pm #28940Anonymous
InactiveThanks – we have not told anyone in real life yet… my parents would freak out if they knew (they worry so much about Matthew and the feeding etc and how hard the clinic may be, adn they just got divorced etc so we are taking our time to tell them), and so we ahve not told Dave’s parents either…! Once we start therapy on the 9th and are settled in Baltimore we will tell them.
ASk away Lori!! Well, we wanted another kid for sure. I mean, things with Matthew are going to take some time to get better… and we really want another one soon… so beginning of Feb we decided we would go for it… thinking it may take us some time LOL.. got pregnant straight away and now we are freaking out a bit because of the feeding clinic etc. I am tired but i can handle that. Never had any symptoms with Matthew and now with this one i am nauseous all of the time… and the only way to get rid of it is to eat… but i am unable to eat anything from the fridge or anything i cook but i am ok with take out and what others cook??? What gives.
Thanks for asking! I hear you on wanting another baby – maybe one day you will change your mind — who knows?
March 29, 2007 at 6:23 pm #28948Anonymous
InactiveCongratulations Thais!
I wish you a happy and uneventful pregnancy and a healthy reflux free baby.
How’s Matthew?
March 29, 2007 at 8:13 pm #28960Anonymous
InactiveCongratulations!
March 30, 2007 at 7:55 am #29007Anonymous
InactiveCongratulations. I loved been pregnant and I was lucky to have a great pregnancy…but any time I felt a bit sick or a bit tired I just thought to myself…I am going to enjoy every little bit of this…its my baby telling me it loves me already
March 30, 2007 at 10:23 am #29027Anonymous
InactiveAlong those lines a doctor told me that the worse you feel the better it is for the baby because it’s the pregnancy hormones that make you feel miserable, but it’s these hormones that sustain your pregnancy.
March 30, 2007 at 12:00 pm #29038Anonymous
InactiveThais Congrat!!! I’m so happy for you! Wishing you the best! Things are heading the right direction, only good things can happen now! Matthew is going to get the best feeding therapy! Finally and you are pregnant! All Positive VIBES!!!!! Alexis’s mom2007-3-30 14:30:11
March 30, 2007 at 1:57 pm #29064Anonymous
InactiveCongratulations, Sue, that’s great news!
I live near Annapolis, so if you need any info on Baltimore, let me know! (Although I moved here only a few years ago myself, I’ll do what I can!)
March 31, 2007 at 12:34 am #29120Anonymous
InactiveWhile we are on the subject of pregnancy, here are two articles worth looking at:
http://www.bounty.com/News.aspx?Article=18075782
Pregnancy diet could affect baby’s allergies
01 Mar 2007
German researchers are claiming that the food a woman eats while she is pregnant could impact on whether or not her child develops allergies to food when they grow up.
Dr Joachim Heinrich led a team from the GSF-Institute of Epidemiology in Neuherberg, Germany in the analysis of expectant mothers’ diets during the last four weeks of pregnancy before comparing them to the allergies and eczema the offspring developed at two-years-old, reports Reuters.
Overall, 17.7% of all children had doctor-diagnosed eczema at the age of two. A total of 9.3% were sensitised to food allergens – most commonly milk and eggs – and 4.8% were sensitised to inhaled allergens.
The researchers concluded that according to their studies of the mother’s diet prior to giving birth, high maternal intakes of margarine and vegetable oils during the last four weeks of pregnancy correlated with a number of offspring who suffered from eczema.
Similarly, eating a lot of fish prior to birth appeared to provide some sort of protection against the development of eczema, while mums who eat a large amount of citrus fruits and celery often gave birth to kids with increased risk of being allergic to certain foods.
Air-borne allergies were also found to be more common in the offspring whose mothers had indulged in a lot of deep-frying vegetable fat, raw sweet peppers and citrus fruits during the last month of pregnancy.
The researchers have called for further testing to be done and stress that these results alone are not enough to dictate what a woman should and should not eat.
http://www.drgreene.org/body.cfm?xyzpdqabc=0&id=21&a ction=detail&ref=1876
Nuts! Allergies, Omega-3s, and Yogurt
We’re just beginning to learn about how diet in pregnancy affects asthma, eczema, and allergies in children. We know that over 90% of food allergies in young children are to one of five food: milk, eggs, peanuts, soy, or wheat. Some speculated that mothers’ avoiding these foods during pregnancy might reduce allergies. But studies have not shown any preventive effect from avoiding these foods, expect perhaps for peanuts and maybe even other nuts. This may be worthwhile in families where allergies are a particular problem. However, the most important thing we know to avoid for allergy prevention is not a food, but tobacco smoke. On the positive side of the diet, several studies show a significant benefit in preventing allergic disease by eating omega-3 fatty acids and eating the beneficial bacteria found in active culture yogurt.
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